How beautifully Necip F\u00e2z\u0131l said…<\/p>\n\n
There is no remedy when it is not meant to be… And when it is meant to be, there is no way not to be…<\/p>\n\n
There are moments that cannot be shared. There are many consolers, but no one knows about the storm raging inside.<\/p>\n\n
Which ones?<\/p>\n\n
When the doctor comes out of the imaging room and looks away from you.<\/p>\n\n
When you can’t answer your precious one and you see the light in her eyes go out…<\/p>\n\n
When the doctor who came to the intensive care unit door with the security guard held her hands tightly…<\/p>\n\n
When you leave in a mosque courtyard…<\/p>\n\n
When you entrust him to the land you traveled with…<\/p>\n\n
While you have work to do, celebrations and travels planned, the manifestation of destiny…<\/p>\n\n
When you don’t know how to pick up a life turned upside down…<\/p>\n\n
When you see your friends drifting away one by one…<\/p>\n\n
When you look for remedies and they look for excuses…<\/p>\n\n
When you can’t answer those who say you look strong.<\/p>\n\n
When you can’t explain that the consolation of “time heals all wounds” is a lie, that you have to get used to it…<\/p>\n\n
Most of all on holidays…<\/p>\n\n
When you stop talking in case I cry<\/p>\n\n
When you can’t put into words what weighs heavy on your heart…<\/p>\n\n
When you still serve the table for him…<\/p>\n\n
When you pick up the phone to share some good news, only to hear that the number is invalid…<\/p>\n\n
On some leaves of the calendar…<\/p>\n\n
When the wound just won’t heal…<\/p>\n\n
When you feel a sudden gust of wind and smell her scent…<\/p>\n\n
When you can’t tell the pain hidden in your smiling face…<\/p>\n\n
When you can’t get along by talking.<\/p>\n\n
When you remember that a bouquet of roses will no longer come to you…<\/p>\n\n
When you find out that the friend you’ve been looking for for years is no longer alive…<\/p>\n\n
When you forget the birthday you’ve been waiting for all year…<\/p>\n\n
When you send that message to the wrong person…<\/p>\n\n
When you see your loved one with someone else…<\/p>\n\n
In front of the library where you remember your first love.<\/p>\n\n
What ifs<\/p>\n\n
Every fall<\/p>\n\n
Then a subtle sound washes over you…<\/p>\n\n
It is a time of testing<\/p>\n\n
It is a time of surrender<\/p>\n\n
It is a time of tawakkul<\/p>\n\n
You hug your loved ones<\/p>\n\n
You hug your dear friends…<\/p>\n\n
You hug those who embrace you in every way…<\/p>\n\n
You cling to the possibility of meeting in the eternal world…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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